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Failure is not an option

November 17, 2011 by Alan R 1 Comment

Failure is not an option. There are ultra competitive people out there who believe that failure is not an option.  They work hard, doing whatever they can to chase success.  They sacrifice their relationships, their physical health, their spiritual health, all in pursuit of perfection.  Failure is not an option … except when it is.

I want my share of failure.  Not only do I want failure, I demand it.  Without failure, there is no progress.  Without failure, there is mediocrity.  Without failure, you can NEVER be remarkable.  I know I will pass through failure on my way to success, that I MUST pass through failure.

What are you doing to fail?

How is that failure setting you up for success?

If you are not failing, what are you missing out on?

Filed Under: General Tagged With: choices, failure, success

What’s in your pocket?

November 5, 2011 by Alan R Leave a Comment

My pockets are full.  I’d like to say it they were full of money, but I tend to carry a collection of small items that may or may not be indispensable.  I carry what I think I will use on a regular basis, is fairly easy to carry, and mean something personal.  If I had a cool Batman utility belt, I would have it filled most likely.  I like small gadgets.  But, with everything, there must be a limit and carrying 50 pounds of stuff is too much for even the ultra-dedicated.  So, how do you choose what you carry and what does say about you?

I became interested in the concept of EDC or Every Day Carry (a good website I enjoy looking at is Everyday-Carry.com).  For most people that I have read about online, that concept tended toward weapons, survival, and other stuff of questionable use (at least, in my opinion).  There is always a wide selection of what people actually carry and I am very interested to see what people decide to dedicate their very limited personal storage space in carting around.  So what is useful and what is valuable?

It is said that you can tell what a person values by looking at how they spend their money.  Do they give to charity?  Do they spend all their money on fast food then complain they can’t lose weight?  Do they visit Starbucks often but complain they have no money to save? Do they spend more than they earn?  Money talks, in more ways than one.

That led me to wonder, what does the stuff in my pockets say about me and my values?  Before you can examine your stuff, I would suggest that you consider how it is organized.  I believe there are about three concentric circles of stuff that radiate outward from the person:

  1. EDC or on your person – items you would have in your pockets pretty much at all times
  2. Within arms reach, but not on your person – items you would carry in a coat, purse, backpack, other storage device that is not with you 100% of the time, but is very often at arm’s reach
  3. Ten-foot rule or very common places – items that you keep in your car, office, bedside table or dresser, etc.

Do you have an idea where your things fit within these three circles? If not, sit down and make a list.  Be specific and detailed but not to the point that you have a list of hundreds of items.  Just the items you interface with often, you want or need to have with you at particular times, and items that have meaning for you.  Do you have a particular pen or brand of pen you always use?  Do you rotate through a number of similar items (knives, key chains, etc) depending on where you are going?  Do you need a Sherpa to help carry your stuff?

In an upcoming post, I will explain what I have in each of the three areas, why I chose those items, what I would change and why, and how those choices speak of my values.  Until then, get working on your list, start thinking what those items really mean to you, and how your past and future choices express your personality and values.

Filed Under: General Tagged With: arms reach, backpack, edc, every day carry, pocket, ten foot, wallet

Do you prefer Audiobooks or Podcasts?

October 19, 2011 by Alan R Leave a Comment

For years, I listened to audiobooks when I drove.  They are entertaining, informative, and in my opinion, a much better alternative to listening to music.  Over the past 5 or so years, I have gone through over 400 audiobooks of varying lengths and subjects, from business to horror, self-help to history.  I enjoy listening to content while I drive, exercise (at least, when I exercised more regularly), and any other time I can.  Audiobooks, while a great source of content, are often not the most up-to-date information.  Enter podcasts.

Podcasts, while being up-to-date, may not represent the best source of information.  Anyone can create and distribute a podcast with little trouble.  They are much shorter in length; typically from a few minutes to an hour or so compared to many 10’s of hours for the typical audiobook.  The content is more recent; you can create a podcast and have it available in a few minutes compared to months or more for audiobooks.  So what is the best solution?

As most things in life, this is not an “either-or” choice but an “and or both” choice.  Both have their uses, strengths and weaknesses.  Seth Godin utilizes blogs, books, and other media options but does not create podcasts.  I would feel it a great disservice to myself not to have the wisdom of Mr Godin to learn from.  Justin Lukasavige from Coach Radio TV does amazing podcasts (up to 179 episodes as I write this).  The episodes are about one hour long and packed full of great information, stories, and coaching to help you do business better.  Again, I would feel it a great disservice to myself not to have the wisdom of Mr Lukasavige to learn from.

As we get further into digital content, we will be bombarded with more and more information.  There will be good information, bad information, and information so awful, terrible, and bad for society, it should be erased from human memory.  What is the best source of this information?  Is it from podcasts?  Is it from audiobooks? Traditionally published books? ebooks? Who knows?

As a society, we must keep an open mind in regard to content as well as content delivery.  Gone are the days of three television stations or nothing on the radio.  We live in an era of global access to information.  Not only can we access the information, not only are we content consumers, but we are  content generators.  We have the power, the tools, and in many cases, the passion to produce quality content for the world.  All you have to do is find your passion and get started.

What is your passion?

How can you turn that passion into relevant content?

How can you share it with the world?

 

Filed Under: General Tagged With: audio books, driving, podcasts, reading

A Wedding gift to stand the test of time

October 12, 2011 by Alan R Leave a Comment

Your wedding is a special day.  You plan for months if not years to make that day one to remember forever.  Often, the whole day is filled with action and you are the start attraction.  Well-wishers will bring gifts, but you often will not notice.  Days or weeks later, you will open the gifts, write your Thank You notes, and begin your married life.  What gifts did you receive?  Can you remember a year from now? Two? Ten?  What makes a wedding gift stand the test of time?

According to Nina Callaway on About.com, a great gift idea is a nice bottle of wine with instructions for the couple to open it on their tenth anniversary.  That day, you will look back fondly and remember the special friend that gave you that amazing gift.  Handwritten notes may get lost, tags will come off, those special instructions could be lost.  What better way to ensure your instructions stay with the gift than to etch them on the bottle.

So, what makes a wedding gift stand the test of time?  A thoughtful, useful, elegant gift that is chosen from the heart.  Toasters are fine and that new stand mixer would be great, but a personalized bottle of wine for the happy couple to enjoy for years to come, that is a gift you remember.

 

Filed Under: General, Laser etching Tagged With: bottle, etching, gifts, laser, wedding, wine

Inciting incident

September 27, 2011 by Alan R Leave a Comment

According to the book, A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller, an inciting incident is “…the doorway through which they [the character] can’t return…”  Something happens and we are never the same.  There may be many in our lives, but an inciting incident is what gets you moving, in good ways or bad ways, and you know things are different….. lifechanging.

My inciting incident occurred on Monday, 9/28/11 at 3:40p CST

Filed Under: General Tagged With: A Million Miles in a Thousand Years, Donald Miller, inciting incident

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